# Refuse to play the platform game versus play it (prisoner's dilemma).

**Practitioner:** Brian Balfour
**Source:** Lenny's Podcast — Brian Balfour episode
**Timestamp:** 28:11
**Move:** 3 of 8

## The tension

Refuse to play the platform game versus play it (prisoner's dilemma).

## Where they landed

Extreme play-the-game — opt-out is not a viable position.

## What they accepted to lose

Accept the eventual closing of every platform you build on. Accept dependency on platforms whose rules will change unfavorably.

## Verbatim

> It ends up being a prisoner's dilemma, which is, there is no opting out of the game.

— Brian Balfour, Lenny's Podcast, 28:11

## Load-bearing phrase

*no opting out of the game*

## What it pushes back against

The principled refusal to depend on platforms whose owners can change the rules.

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**Source attribution:** This call is drawn from Lenny Rachitsky's public podcast archive at [LennysData.com](https://lennysdata.com), released April 2026 with an explicit invitation to builders.

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